Saturday 5 April 2008

2nd TimeUnlucky

I guess the blog title says it all.
We're still not pregnant and we were so sure I was pregnant till I had three pregnancy tests confirming i was not.
I had all the symptoms: Frequent urination, Rock hard belly; Full and tender breasts and my period was a day late.
Hubby asked me to call him as soon as I had the test result.
I did and we cried.
I locked myself in the ladies and cried my eyes out.
Doc said not to give up, but to keep praying.
We're trying a third time and then I may have to do surgery to remove the fibroid as a last reort.
Me: but Doc, you said the fibroid was not harmful.
Doc: As a last resort, we may consider removing it to eliminate all doubt.

But Copido where is your faith?!!!
I'm afraid it's wavering.
I'm afraid......I am soooooooo scared.......I am so worried!!!!

17 comments:

NigeriaPolitricks.com said...

Copido, abeg, ko eaaazy! Now is the time to seek the advise of real specialist... I dont trust those Naija doctors...before you know it, they will hand you your womb say na fibroid be that. I'm not trying to be cynical, but I'm just saying...just thread carefully as you go about baby chasing...only God gives babies. So trust in HIM and PRAY! my 2c!

Anonymous said...

God bless you my darling... God bless you

Aspiring nigerian woman said...

Copido,

Hang on there. It will happen. How about a 2nd opinion before any surgery? If you can afford, why don't you try http://www.privatehealth.co.uk/hospitaltreatment/find-a-treatment/infertility-treatment/

Another thing to note is that, even for natural conception, the chances of conceiving each month is only 20%

P.s: You don't have to publish this post.

Aijay said...

*Hugs*
Pls stay strong my dear... God is ur strength.
Remember how faithful He is. He'll surely make it happen.

LG said...

1st time here and i must say i ve had a wonderful time reading all ur posts, n i have one thing to say, u are a beautiful person n u deserve d best, please try n be calm,(i know its not easy but try) and allow God to do the rest.I'm also praying for you.

Goodluck to you and hubby

LG said...

please try n update regularly, tanx

Aphrodite said...

Take it easy dear.
Your prayers will be answered in Jesus name, just keep faith.

Nice Blog.

classybabe said...

It is well.please don't let your faith waver although i know that's easier said than done, we shall soon be celebrating the good news with you

aloted said...

hmm my sister it is well..just keep telling yourself that..and keep believing.

by the way info- i heard from a nurse friend of mine that some women who wish to get pregnant sometimes see symptoms of pregnancy. maybe that's what happened.

God dey

A Kel called Wonder ...... said...

I reckon that it is well. The lord has never ever given us a blessing just to bring sorrow.

I guess i can advice since i somehow understand how it is ttc. (I have been ttc myself for over a year). I actually have gotten tired of hearing this, but i guess its the truth and the only way we can move on to other things... here it goes..

Am sure it sounds familiar, and i dont mean to offend u, but yes yes we must all remove our minds from it. Just focus on as much other areas of ur life as possible and before u know it will happen.

Cos u must surely carry ur babies in ur hands (we all must ooo AMEN!!)

Copido, its well ok, and pls try not to tink too much or cry too much ok.

Take care

Writefreak said...

Oh my thoughts and prayers are with you, just offered one right now!May this third time be the one! I've heard sometimes it takes a few attempts, try to keep your chin up, some of us are on our knees on yor behalf...i understand what you're going through!

Unknown said...

It will happen eventually. God will surely grant us all the desires of our hearts. Cheers.

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Anonymous said...

I cant imagine how sad u must feel right now!but hang in there..God knows all our pain and burdens..and he will make him self known in your situation at his time!Keep praying and confessing positive ..its not easy but thats d only way..PRAYER...pele

? said...

you have gone quiet for a bit. Hope itsgoodnews

Thirty + said...

I have never been down that road so can't say I know how it feels.

But like A kel said, worrying and fretting will/may affect your system and may even have a negative impact on you.

As you continue trying please focus on the positive since focussing on negative will not do it.

If having babies has anything to do with tears I am sure you would have yours by now.

In his time God makes everything beautiful.

Try (note the word Try) to keep a positive attitude and see the positivity as part of treatment for conception.

Mimi said...

hey missy how is it going?